What is the best method to ground ourselves?
What's grounding?
Why would we need that?
Grounding is a process of trying to reconnect with your body and surroundings. There are tons of methods that have been discovered over millennia. I have tried many. Below I wanted to dive deeper and share the best methods of grounding ourselves so that we can increase presence and live our lives to the fullest.
Fight or flight (aka the acute stress response) is an essential bodily function that keeps us hyper aware and alive when we are in danger. Unfortunately, nowadays many people (including myself) are prone to an overactive acute stress response which basically means being in a nearly perpetual fight or flight. Whether from the global pandemic, unrelated trauma, or social media pressures, it is increasingly common for individuals to suffer from the anxieties that cause this overactive acute stress response. Feeling on edge all the time can lead to another sympathetic response of our bodies which is freeze. Some will simply “check out” of their bodies in order to protect the mind, this is called dissociation. The problem with this is that, in prolonged instances, people have a hard time living their life to the fullest because they are dissociated.
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Grounding in Pop Culture
As dissociation and anxiety are so widespread recently, there has been an outpouring of advice and support from all sectors of pop culture. On tiktok, videos like the one to the right are posted by many individuals sharing what works for them. There are also creators whose whole pages are dedicated to sharing information about mental health and they give many great tips on grounding. Some of the creators that have helped me a lot are @frankiesimmons and @thedailyvictorian. Even Hollywood has started broadening their representation of mental health to include characters who

struggle with dissociation. In fact, I first learned about bilateral stimulation from Supergirl when one of the characters seeks help for episodes of PTSD and he is recommended bilateral stimulation with touch. Similarly, in an episode of Bojack Horseman a character teaches Hollycock the 5-4-3-2-1 technique to help pull her into her body from a panic attack.
Although it seems scary that this problem is one that is impacting more and more people recently, it is a form of solace that as the problem grows, more and more techniques are discovered, research is done, and information is shared. The pandemic alone sparked many research projects in this field because it is becoming recognized as a relevant problem to fix.
So...which method is best?
I think breath should be the first line of defense against dissociation. Breath is a common thread in so many more complex practices and is widely recognized as a parasympathetic system activator. In yoga, meditation, therapy, and other practices that I did not include above, breath is taught as an integral part. In some waysmy conclusion is already recognized in the mainstream, whenever someone starts to show signs of distress, the generic response is often "take a deep breath." Breath is also so easy to implement in your daily life. Requiring no tools or prior experience, making this instinctual bodily function intentional can do wonders to ground you.
That being said, everyone’s bodies are different so there is no perfect answer. What may work for me may not work for you. For example, cutting caffeine was a vital step for me in order to get more grounded, but less caffeine sensitive people can continue to use caffeine to wake them up for the day without a consequence of the acute stress response.
Furthermore, it is likely a combination of a couple of these methods and even ones I did not research that will help you live a more grounded life. When trying to find the perfect combination for you, first try the things that work best for your schedule. As wonderful as any given technique may be, if it is not sustainable with your lifestle or accessible when you need it, then it is not the practice for you. As someone who has tried most of these techniques, there is not a cure-all for grounding. Nevertheless, I hope you try some of these the next time you are overwhelmed and dial in to your life.
Best of luck to you!
Works Cited
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Alban, Patrick. “15 Links between Caffeine and Anxiety.” Be Brain Fit, 15 Aug. 2022, https://bebrainfit.com/caffeine-anxiety/.
Boyle, Manuela Malaguti. “The Dynamic of Stress.” Journal of the Australian-Traditional Medicine Society 18.2 (2012): 81–83. Print.
Buckman, Anna. “I Stopped Drinking Caffeine to Help My Anxiety - Here's What Happened.” The Zoe Report, The Zoe Report, 20 Oct. 2020, https://www.thezoereport.com/p/quitting-caffeine-to-help-my-anxiety-completely-changed-my-life-heres-how-37678177.
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“Crime and Punishment.” Supergirl, Creator Greg Berlanti, Season 4, Episode 18, The CW, 2018.
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Goldsby, Tamara L, and Michael E Goldsby. “Eastern Integrative Medicine and Ancient Sound Healing Treatments for Stress: Recent Research Advances.” Integrative medicine (Encinitas, Calif.) 19.6 (2020): 24–30. Print.
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“Grounding & Breathing Exercises for Calming Your Nervous System.” Grounding & Breathing Exercises for Calming Your Nervous System | Counseling & Psych Services (CAPS), https://caps.arizona.edu/grounding#breath.
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Kantor, JiÅ™í et al. “Effect of Low Frequency Sound Vibration on Acute Stress Response in University students—Pilot Randomized Controlled Trial.” Frontiers in psychology 13 (2022): 980756–980756. Web.
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Marshall, Mallory et al. “A Comparison of the Acute Effects of Different Forms of Yoga on Physiological and Psychological Stress: A Pilot Study.” International journal of environmental research and public health 17.17 (2020): 6090–. Web
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Neo Schön [@thislightguidedme]. “tips for getting through dissociation!” Tiktok, 20 October 2022, https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTR3cCrxV/.
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